Negativity sucks your energy.
I'm a huge fan of Rafa Nadal while my brother thinks Roger Federer is the best player of all time. Everytime we watch a tennis match together, he always tries to make me convert. Sometimes he would tell me why Roger is the best but sometimes, after seeing that I'm not gonna lose faith over Rafa in any way, he would tell me why the Manacorian fails big time.
And this is typical. You can influence people's choice by giving them positive points, or you can implant negative thoughts on their mind.
It takes the same effort to blab about both sides, but I always feel that injecting negativity drains more energy.
I think we all should focus on the positive. Always, or at least we should try to. I don't think there is one thing in life that is for everybody. We all have our own thing, to which we commit our thoughts and efforts and sometimes even money. And we do it because we know there's so many good things in it. So no need to point out that other things are bad, just because it's not our thing. Chacun son metier, so the French say. We all have our share in this world and if we focus on the positive, we eliminate distracting energy and get more things done.
