Having two nephews and two nieces with completely different characters totally convinced me that people are born with their own inclinations. That's why kids aren't born with manuals, because each and every one of them is different. Careful, observant and smart parents would identify this early and try to direct them towards a good path. But of course, it's not easy to do so. A lot of times they apply same techniques and methods in handling completely two different items and expecting the same result, but end in failure. But parents are just human, and their intentions are always good. At the end it's always that intention that we judge, not the action. (And although some people judge poorly, it's good to know that this is the fairest form of judgement.)
Anyway, this writing is inspired by a trouble I have with a minor arse. I said minor because he's actually not so bad, only that he has certain feeble, unrespectable traits that sometime surface and make him totally incomprehensible as a human being. I'm trying to understand why he is so, and finally concludes that he's probably born that way and that his upbringing emphasised that malbehaviour.
Unfortunately, we can't escape from this kind of people sometime, both at personal as well as professional lives.
Which leads me to conclusion that there are four types of people in this world.
Some people are lovely and kind at heart and make great friends but totally suck at work. You put this people in your personal life.
Some people just bring the worst in you personally, but you need them to get the job done. These are people you tolerate during office hours and not a minute longer.
Some people suck at being an individual and a professional. These people are you greet cordially in the street and never invite to your home.
Some people are just great because spending time with them on projects is just as fun as doing nothing together. These are the people you keep close to you at all times, if possible your whole life. They are rare, because they are gems. I myself don't have plenty of people like this in my life, but the few I have are the ones I'm most grateful for.
